Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Trial and Error Go to post ➜
Hi! Actually, I have been having second thoughts on creating this post, but since I have started typing already, I will continue it.
For the past days I have been talking to someone. I happen to really like that person (like - meaning as a friend, but not something deeper than that). I think he is an amazing person who understands me beyond specific circumstances. It was until tonight that I realized that using the word "think" (as used in my previous sentence) is wrong. It should have been thought.
Meeting people is risky. Well, to me, it is, since I am the type who gives in easily and trusts almost anyone. I do not use any of my senses at all. Whenever I talk to a person and find him/her interesting, I trust them right away. And that attitude of mine is something that, I think, I should replace.
Anyway, I think I will always be like that. I am someone who likes to make friends, someone who can't stand being alone, or being mute or quiet even just for a moment. I really like talking to people and telling them things; May it be whether making them laugh or making them feel curious towards what I have to say.
So technically, it hurts me to see that some are trying to avoid me. I would always say that they can tell me when they are annoyed or whatever. I'd be more than delightful to accept it, for I know that they are telling me how they truly feel. What hurts is that they would hide behind your back and not say a thing. Sometimes, even though it may sound a little harsh, you have to be straightforward and vocal about how you feel. That way, you make the person (you're talking to or interacting with) feel less puzzled about what you're really up to. At least they would know. At least I would know.
I guess that was just about it. I just hate it when people wear masks in front of you. Though, I don't hate anyone (acting like that) for the moment. It just...kinda pissed me off. I felt a little bit of disappointment on that one though.
And in every mistake we do, we learn. I just don't know if I learned since I am someone who swallows pride easily. But one thing is for sure: I realized making friends is like answering an algebraic equation --- sometimes, you have to learn how to deal with trial and error.
9:52 AM
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Trial and Error Go to post ➜
Hi! Actually, I have been having second thoughts on creating this post, but since I have started typing already, I will continue it.
For the past days I have been talking to someone. I happen to really like that person (like - meaning as a friend, but not something deeper than that). I think he is an amazing person who understands me beyond specific circumstances. It was until tonight that I realized that using the word "think" (as used in my previous sentence) is wrong. It should have been thought.
Meeting people is risky. Well, to me, it is, since I am the type who gives in easily and trusts almost anyone. I do not use any of my senses at all. Whenever I talk to a person and find him/her interesting, I trust them right away. And that attitude of mine is something that, I think, I should replace.
Anyway, I think I will always be like that. I am someone who likes to make friends, someone who can't stand being alone, or being mute or quiet even just for a moment. I really like talking to people and telling them things; May it be whether making them laugh or making them feel curious towards what I have to say.
So technically, it hurts me to see that some are trying to avoid me. I would always say that they can tell me when they are annoyed or whatever. I'd be more than delightful to accept it, for I know that they are telling me how they truly feel. What hurts is that they would hide behind your back and not say a thing. Sometimes, even though it may sound a little harsh, you have to be straightforward and vocal about how you feel. That way, you make the person (you're talking to or interacting with) feel less puzzled about what you're really up to. At least they would know. At least I would know.
I guess that was just about it. I just hate it when people wear masks in front of you. Though, I don't hate anyone (acting like that) for the moment. It just...kinda pissed me off. I felt a little bit of disappointment on that one though.
And in every mistake we do, we learn. I just don't know if I learned since I am someone who swallows pride easily. But one thing is for sure: I realized making friends is like answering an algebraic equation --- sometimes, you have to learn how to deal with trial and error.
9:52 AM
I don't think you've heard ★
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18, Filipina.
A girl who lives life one step at a time.
Can be very sweet. Can be very mean.
Believes in magic and afterlife.
@MikePosner ♥
Anything Architecture. Writing was is always a passion.
Wants to follow the footsteps of her late father.
Opportunity does not knock, it presents itself when you beat down the door.
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I don't think you've heard ★
Giana |
18, Filipina.A girl who lives life one step at a time.
Can be very sweet. Can be very mean.
Believes in magic and afterlife.
@MikePosner ♥
Anything Architecture. Writing
Wants to follow the footsteps of her late father.
Opportunity does not knock, it presents itself when you beat down the door.
ShoutMix chat widget